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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #400 on: December 26, 2012, 09:38:31 PM »
Online kami nagkakilala. Na-open ko yung profile then send me an email na he find me pretty. He is based in US. Umuwi siya sa Pinas after 2 days na pag-uusap. He stayed for 3 mos then back in US. Ngayon LDR na kami then after 2 years magre-retire na siya from Navy. He'll be staying here for good with me.
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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #401 on: December 26, 2012, 09:48:23 PM »
online din kame nagkakilala at mag 4 yrs na kameng LDR pero madalas siyang mag punta rito and the longest he stayed was 3 months


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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #402 on: December 27, 2012, 08:56:57 AM »
I met my bf/fiancee way back college pero hindi naman kami nagtagal nuon. After 3-4 years nagtext kami ulit and voila! naging kami ulit. Hindi na niya ako niligawan kasi nga naging kami na dati. I can say na totoo ang kasabihan, Love is sweeter the second time around. Haha!


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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #403 on: January 14, 2013, 10:14:21 AM »
I'm currently dating my  8.5 years ex bf's, bestfriend/boss. I know, maja-gerald-kim lang ang peg.
But we already knew each other 7 years. during the first infidelity issues with my ex, he's my confidant, and I don't know that he already love me. Hindi sya nag take advantage at all, sya pa nga ang reason kung bakit kami nagkabalikan ni ex bf nun. but now, I'm sure with my feelings for him. Kaya pala mas gusto ko na syang kasama kesa kay ex ko nung mga time na ok ok pa kami.

I feel kilig pa din sa kanya, imagine he waited that looooong for me.
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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #404 on: February 12, 2013, 11:07:02 PM »
Reading this thread makes me wonder kung may counter part to na "How I met my girlfriend/wife", would the guy stories be as sweet as we girls share it hehe


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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #405 on: February 12, 2013, 11:20:05 PM »
Met my boyfriend turned husband when we were in college. Hindi kami pareho ng school, parang neighbor yung school namin. Yung isang barkada nya happened to be the boyfriend of one of my classmates. Nung una nagkakasabay lang during lunch, then chikahan, text, lumalabas pero kasama ang buong barkada. We became good friends until he admitted that he wanted me to be his girl. What I like him the most is hindi cya best foot forward. Ayoko kasi ng pasikat kasi gusto ako tapos pag kayo na saka lilitaw ang tunay na kulay. After almost 4 months of courting, we became officially bf/gf. Our relationship lasted for 6 years until we decided to get married. We're now 2 years and 2 months tgether as married couple and will be having our first born in 2 weeks time. ;)
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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #406 on: February 14, 2013, 04:59:55 PM »
Nakilala ko yung husband ko sa forum ng high school website namin.
Kaibigan nya yung mga friends ko nung high school.  Pero di kami magkakilala.
We were introduced, naging friends muna kami. Late on napapadalas ang text, email, chat, phone calls and eventually kami na lang yung lumalabas.  :)


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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #407 on: February 14, 2013, 06:01:40 PM »
i met my husband trhu sulit.com.ph

i just came from a break up then and I was selling some stuff my ex fiaance gave me.
he was browsing looking for a 2nd hand phone and he saw my pic and he said he fell in love right away

he texted me but i was able to sell the phone the next day so i completely lost his number

then 3 days after he popped on my ym, so yun we chatted for 2 months
met after and got married after another 2 mos


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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #408 on: February 16, 2013, 11:13:37 AM »
Thru online din, parang uso na ata 'to ngayon. Hehe.

We are both member of this forum site. Matagal na kaming member nun. I actually didn't know him before.
Inactive kasi ako sa forum dati dahil nawalan kami ng internet connection sa bahay at naging busy ako sa work.
The forum got down, I don't know what really happened pero nagawa ulit nung admin. Tapos yun, back to zero lahat ng ranks namin.
I joined again. Then one day I saw this egroup na may youtube video na nag gigitara. Parang fans club siya, haha.
Then I watched it, after that I immediately PM him. Tinanong ko siya if siya yung nag gigitara? Nung sinabi niyang siya yun sinabi ko na crush ko siya, haha.
Hindi kasi ako nahihiya sa mga ganong klaseng usapan. And I really like boys who knows how to play the guitar.
Nagkakausap kami but not that close. I ask for his number para minsan magkatext kami kapag hindi ako online. He gave it to me naman.

Then one day my bf (now my ex bf) joined the forum. I told him na merong guy dun na super crush ko because of his talent.
I don't know if I'm being so selfish that time o napaka honest ko lang kasi pati yung mga ganong bagay sinasabi ko pa sa kanya.
Obviously he got jealous of him. We didn't see each other for almost 4 weeks na ata and nararamdaman ko na nanlalamig na siya saken.
Dun pumasok si crush. That time kasi I need someone to talk to and he's the one who is available. At first, para ako lang yung may interest sa usapan.
Then naging araw-araw yung usapan namin ni crush. Ito namang ex ko nag start ng magkalabuan talaga kami. Para kasing wala na siyang balak makipagkita pa saken.

Then one day nagkita kami ni crush, pero may kasama kaming friend ko na member din ng forum. We just ate tapos umalis na siya. Inamin ko yun sa ex ko and he got angry.
Alam ko may kasalanan talaga ako dun pero ganon ata talaga kapag nararamdaman mo ng wala ka ng halaga sa bf mo. I just want someone who can understand me.
Tapos naging mas malapit kami ni crush. Then one day nagkaaminan kami. Tama ako, the feeling is mutual. Nung nalaman niyang may nararamdaman na ako sa kanya, iniwasan niya ako.
Nalungkot ako kasi nasanay na akong kausap siya. Then nakipag break na ako dun sa bf ko, naguguluhan kasi talaga ako that time. Pumayag siya pero madami muna akong narinig na mga sumbat.
Tinanggap ko lahat kasi may nagawa naman akong masama sa kanya. Nakakatawa lang kasi yung mali niya hindi niya nakikita.

Then one day, nakapag-usap ulit kami ni crush and I told him what had happened. Na single na ako, na namiss ko siya. We started all over again.
We hang out almost every week, hindi pwedeng everyday kasi sa province siya nagwowork. Nagkikita kami every Friday and Saturday. Ganon kami for almost 4 months ata.
Last month lang naging kami. Pinaghintay ko siya ng ganon katagal, haha. At nakapag hintay naman siya. Now we are one of the happy couple in the metro. Hehe.

Sorry, sobrang haba ng kwento ko. Haha.


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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #409 on: February 20, 2013, 07:50:47 PM »
sorry off topic hihi i reckon I posted here that i met my fiance in uae technically sa bar haha but through a mutual friend later on..

by the way just want to share, i got engaged nung weekend tee hee!
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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #410 on: February 20, 2013, 08:18:05 PM »
^ Congrats, nakakatuwa naman. wedding preps na. Goodluck sis!


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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #411 on: March 28, 2013, 08:03:33 AM »
It was "love at first sight" that's what he said. I was still in college when i met my him(way back 2009),  his name's john joseph or "JJ" for short. I was still getting over my first love (which took me 6 years before i finally moved on) :'(. We studied the same course and at the same school year. He was the cool guy with a lot of sense of humor, but that didn't catch my attention. I never really expected that at that moment, i was able to meet "the best man i ever knew". :)

Nope, i didn't met him at the first day of our class. Turns out, he was a late enrollee. The first time i saw him, i immediately thought he was gay, but oops! My bad! I was just kidding :P. He was not the kind of guy that i would date. I usually date guys that are TDH or if i may say, "Tall, Dark and Handsome" and he didn't met that standard. Ofcourse i dated other guys in as well in that 6 years. But that's out of desperation trying to move on from the past. Other people say "the best way to get over a person is to start a new relationship and be attached to it" but i guess for me, it wasn't. Until he came into my life.  :)

He didn't introduce himself to me until our professor said that we had to do a presentation together. He asked me to work on the presentation right after class so, i agreed. Oh, the presentation was for us to do a "DUET", yes, you read it right. He wasn't the guy that i knew who could sing but i was wrong. He blew me away with his voice! Believe it or not but he sounded much like Janno Gibbs and he also plays the piano. Then i thought, he had some of the traits like the man whom i first fell in love with, well except for the fact that my first love couldn't really sing but JJ is really something.

And so it was, (sigh) the day of our presentation came and everyone in the class was blabbering about something. A friend of mine told me and she said that everyone thoght that we look good together, that all that's missing is wedding bells (say what?). I didn't think of it too much because i knew it'll be awkward for the both of us. He gave me something after we did the presentation, it was a love letter. It was my first time to receive a love letter so i didn't know how to react. My face was all blank and i just said thankyou. Ofcourse i didn't read it immediately but at the moment that i was going to, he said something first. He said, "please read it carefully and don't ask me anything after". I'm not sure what he meant by that but i didn't read the letter right away, i read it when i got home. I don't know what that letter contains but i was so curious to read it.

When i finally got home, i rushed to my room and read it says. "I hate to say this but I think you love too much and think too little. You're loving someone too much and not think about what's left for yourself. You know when they say don't fall in love? That's because everything that falls, breaks. So you better love someone who will love you back or else, I will. P.S. I know that after read this, you'll definitely ask me out, but let me do the honor." That letter made my day, and even the day after that. I cannot wait 'til the end of sembreak comes and i'll see him again. I wanted to thank him for everything that he's done.  :)

Then the second sem started. I was excited to go to school for the first time. :P I was expecting to see him but he didn't show up at class that morning. It also happened in one week. I asked our professor what happened to him and he said he dropped out of school since the last day of our first sem ended. The LORD says everything that happens has its reason. Even if it doesn't mean good or bad, we just have to trust GOD. So, i prayed for him, wherever he is, whoever he's with and whatever he's doing at that moment. I prayed for the LORD o keep him safe as always and for me to find reach his heart.

I guess I never really should've expected too much in return. So I tried to forget him. But it seemed like GOD didn't want me to just yet. One day, (it was November of 2012) I received a message through facebook. I didn't know who it was so but when i read it, I suddenly got surprised. "Hi officemate!" and yes, it was JJ. I was already working for a BPO company back then. He was assigned on one of my previous account so we had a lot to talk about. Then and there, i was the one who asked him out for breakfast. Then at the first time, I was excited to go to work. We had breakfast at a resto near our workplace so it wouldn't be a hassle. It was officially our first date. We talked about a lot of things, just anything under the sun. It seemed like he missed me a lot so he asked me later on a second date, for dinner. And it got followed by many dates since then... :)

How did it ended? Ofcourse he's now my boyfriend for almost four months now and we're still taking things slow and we're still on the "getting to know each other" level eventhough we already know each other for a long time. I can say not only that he's my boyfriend, he's also my bestfriend, my no.1 fan and my worst enemy at sometimes. He's the all-in-one drug that i will never get over with. He's the man of my dreams, and I'm the woman of his (i guess).  ;D

I'm sooo soorry if this story is too long. This is the shortest possible way that i can tell how i met my boyfriend..peace! 8)
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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #412 on: March 29, 2013, 12:56:56 PM »
since nbsb pa rin ako i might as well share my parents experience
my mom is working in national bookstore parang sales lady. Then my dad went there to buy an attache case but it is located in the highest part of the shelves so he asked my mother to get it for him. My mother is wearing skirt that time so when she used the ladder to get it, My father was mesmerized by her beauty and her legs. Then the next day, someone told my mother that there is a guy looking for him carrying chocolates and flowers with him. Mga 6 months after they got married na


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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #413 on: March 29, 2013, 09:32:32 PM »
me and my fiance met online then he went here to see me then we got engaged.


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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #414 on: April 24, 2013, 07:05:31 PM »
Happily attached ladies, give your single sisters some hope!  Talk about your personal "how I met him" love stories and give others the encouragement they need to keep believing that someday they'll meet someone, too!

ang peg namin noon ni boyfie ala-"my lady boss" kasi ex-officemates na kami ngayon. bale same department pa kami noon pero not totally boss nya ako, parang ganun lang ng kaunti. hehe ayun naging kami tapos nung malapit na mag-1 year at dahil may mga nakakakita na samin sa labas e we decided that one of us will resign dahil bawal sa company namin so si boyfie ang nag-resign at 3 years na kami ngayon. tee hee!
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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #415 on: April 25, 2013, 10:46:37 AM »
my friend and i decided to have a few drinks before going home. yung gimikan na pinuntahan namin, dun ko nameet si bf. we were introduced by my friend since they were batchmates in hs. actually ang suplado nya nun kasi heartbroken pa sya with his ex. ako naman i was still dating his not-so-close kabarkada that time.

after a couple of months, ayun todo stalk na sya sa kin sa friendster (friendster?!) and fb. i guess kahit nagsusuplado sya nun hindi nya ko nakalimutan. :P he added me in fb, i accepted. and the rest is history. 
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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #416 on: May 08, 2013, 03:04:20 PM »
i met him at a cafe. Now were planning to get married  ;D

pano?? kwento nman! haha


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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #417 on: May 08, 2013, 03:09:56 PM »
Sa National Bookstore! hehe..

Pinag awayan namin iyong last copy nung book doon, TC7, book namin sa calculus. Talagang away talaga, "I came here first so akin to" "Kanina ko pa yan nakita, so akin yan!"..

ang Ending Naghati kami sa libro, with the promise that we will let each other borrow kung kelangan gamitin (schoolmates pala kami, dili ko lang alam.. hehe)..

Then, the next thing I know, we were always together, eating lunch, kapag may activities, kasama kami palagi, at naging kami talaga until now. :D

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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #418 on: May 08, 2013, 03:10:25 PM »
Facebook! wahaha


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Re: How I met my boyfriend/husband
« Reply #419 on: May 09, 2013, 06:15:52 PM »
Met my husband when I was 16. He is dutch but both the engagement and weddins were held in the Philippines. At first we were just friends until he proposed when we were 23. 2 years after that we got married. We've been together for 9 years and is blessed with a 2 years old son.

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