I hate being in a lingerie store. All those beautiful, lacy push-ups and girly, satin brassieres that I could certainly afford, but can’t buy because they don’t come smaller than 32A. Thirty-two A on me means enough space to stuff a table napkin in each cup. The one time that I gave in to the urge and bought a pretty strapless 32A, two shimmies at a party and ‘shoof!’ it ended up around my waist. Flat chest-o, ergo no strapless-o. Ergo, I’d have been better off wearing two band aids. When womankind lauded the invention of the push-up Wonderbra, I couldn’t relate because I had nothing to push-up. And I kid you not! See, I’m a 30A. Really. Twenty inches of that is composed of backside girth. Can I mention that I was only 28½ until recently, so being 30A is not an entirely bad thing?
I’ve heard that there are obscure brassiere brands out there that have 30As, and one just has to seek them out in the remote regions of the Bermuda Triangle. Maybe I will do just that, after I do my Vocal Affirmation Exercise. Repeat several times a day until no longer embarrassed to say it out loud: I am 30A. I am 30A. Ad infinitum.
If I had a peso for every time my lack of chess mass became the subject of lame attempts at humor, a spot targeted to make me feel insecure, or the subject of why I shouldn’t be wearing the clothes I do because they “aggravate your flaw,” I’d be a billionaire. “My boobs were that big when I was 11!” Or how about, “Don’t take this personally, but before I met you, I thought you were gay.” Or maybe, “Oh my God, you’re so flat! At least you can’t possibly get breast cancer, because there’s nothing for it to grow on.”
I wouldn’t mind being just a 30A, if people would stop pointing out to me all the time like I need to be reminded of it. Except for those days when I have to wear a stupid dress I can’t fill out properly (like for a wedding), my breasts and I get along fine. They let me sleep comfortably on my stomach all night. They don’t flop around like asphyxiating fish when I run. They never unwittingly attract lewd, leery looks from men you wouldn’t touch with a ten-foot-pole. Whatever position I’m in, upright, diagonal, horizontal or upside down, they always point straight ahead.
It’s that age-old connection between breasts and attracting men that disrupts our otherwise peaceful existence. Why is so much attention paid to breasts? Why do we have entire industries devoted to creating products that control, lift, mold, enhance, support, prettify, reduce or enlarge them? To answer that question with one word: men. Think of men as cruise ships lost in the seas at night, and women’s breasts are their beacons. The better your beacons are, the stronger the signal.
The proven and very observable fact is that the attention of 9 out of every 10 men can be easily caught by displaying a magnificent set of boobs. Jugs, hooters, melons, torpedoes…whatever. A woman can’t keep a man’s attention forever if she lets her boobs do all the talking, but that’s another story. Well-endowed women have the initial advantage when it comes to attracting the opposite sex. Male vision is wired for immediate automatic assessment of the female chest region. Whenever a man evaluates a woman’s attractiveness, the size and shape of her breasts always factor into the action. Always, and often in a big way. To put it simply: great jugs, bing bing bing! Sound the alarm, plus 100 points. Flat chest, well, back to the barracks, minus 200 points.
Flat chested as I am, I’ve had to wait longer and try harder to make them see that I am just as lusty and female as my better-built counterparts. Pitting 30As against a roomful of 34s is like expecting a man to surrender to a popgun when the place is crawling with rockets! A flat chested woman lucks in her popgun, and brings out her other weapons. There are men who can be coaxed to respond to the shape of your legs, the waves in your hair, the way you speak, or, best of all, the way your mind words. If you can get to a man that way, you know he’s one for keeps.
Although most men are temporarily immobilized and their brains are turned to cereal by the sight of a lush bust, many of them instinctive prehistoric inclination in time to focus on the more pressing matter: how does the rest of her stack up? If this is where your high scores are, you can in fact be more than a match for any old 36D.
I could choose to have my breasts augmented. I know I’d be a fantastic 34B. Except that I’d be bothered by the fact that I’m a vain, disgusting fraud, and that I’ve got jell-o sewed into my chest. I am a 30A. Sometimes it’s wiser to work with what you’ve got.
111 Comments
Add CommentI share the same sentiment. I, too, am about your size, maybe even smaller coz besides being flat, I'm also petite in built. Well you can say skinny, though. I have been like this since my gradeschool years - skinny and small. And it's so tough to hear those unbearable comments especially if coming from those people whom you love or care. Or those who have been with you and have known you for a long time, thinking that knowing you this long should have been considerate enough with what you feel with every hurtful comment. But anyway, some people can just be so rude and worth the pity coz they have nothing else good to say or do than just pick on flat chested people like us. Despite what they say about us, I think we can get along life just fine by being confident about ourselves. What I do for instance is dress up with clothes that none of them can carry/wear well. In my workplace, I get to be the one person who stand out coz of my style. I dazzle everyone with how I can work on those stylish clothes and fashionable accessories. Everyone else looks dull when I'm around. We can be just as attractive as most of them even if we're this flat. I mean there's a whole lot more about us that just our breasts. What we lack in our bosoms, we have a lot more with our wit, style, confidence and grace...
November 20, 2006 at 4:37 amI certainly agree with Maronne. I am not too well endowed on that part also but my friends dont see that. Perhaps it's because I try to capitalize on my strengths.Like for example the way I dress up and the way i carry myself. We can be sexy even if we don't have a 36D size. How I adore Kate Hudson, and didn't you notice that she is also flat? But she is very sexy still.
November 20, 2006 at 8:58 amI love the confession of a flat chested woman. I love the article the best yet! Not only it is true but it has many points that is well said! Esp pointing to GUYS! Thanks for making us laugh and realize that flat chested aren't so bad at all. We just need to celebrate what we have...
November 20, 2006 at 8:16 pmMe too have the same problem! Sometimes i envy those people who have atleast normal breast size! I'm tired of wearing padded bras.. But i don't want to have any breast surgery just to escape from this situation... I'm still happy coz even if it is pretty obvious that i'm a flat-chested girl everybody keeps on telling me that i'm still sexy.. Well I guess it is because of the spirit.. Feeling sexy inside and out... and ofcourse confidence!!! tell to yourself that you are a sexy goddess.. and you will be...
November 21, 2006 at 8:12 amyes kelly your right!!! what's important is that your boobs are bigger than your brain... =)
November 21, 2006 at 8:24 amI hate "love your body" articles such as this one. Why? Because they put down other women who do possess nice features such as ample breasts, slim figures, or tight butts. Maybe you're not aware of it, Ms. Becky C. Bravo, but in this article, you're putting down women with ample breasts so you can elevate flat-chestedness. You make it seem like having breasts is a bad thing. Well, news flash: Ample breasts are great. They're sexy and womanly. I know so because I have them. I flaunt them when appropriate. When I want to tone them down for whatever reason, I wear a minimizer. I'm smart and accomplished so fortunately I never had the need to use my body to make my way in this world. But yeah, it feels great owning a pair of full breasts because they look good. I'll never give up my breasts for a flat chest!
November 21, 2006 at 3:00 pmit's not fair to say that the author is "putting down women with ample breasts" because she even said that she hated being flat chested. She didn't say that having ample breast is a bad thing . The article is brimming optimism inspite of an admitted flaw.
November 21, 2006 at 7:35 pmwell i confessed im a flat-chested girl "almost" a 32A,
November 22, 2006 at 10:01 amI am flat chected too! im proud of it....just focus on your other sexy part like butt or legs...whats important is confidence....go girls!!!!
November 23, 2006 at 12:46 ami really can relate to this article; i too am flat chested but i've no problem with it; everytime someone makes a comment on it i would reply with "as long as my brain is bigger than my boobs
November 23, 2006 at 6:31 amjust a cont.. "...then I think I'll be able to live with what I have"
November 23, 2006 at 11:41 amoh my gosh i just mismatch the words on my first comment im sorry its "BRAIN is BIGGER than your boobs".. whew flat chested din po kasi ako... and i dont see any problem with it... =)
November 24, 2006 at 1:57 ammwa ha ha!! at least, im not alone =)
November 24, 2006 at 3:54 pmchest size aren't everything... come on.. if you think about it, what kind of guys are just attracted to big boobs? would you really want those kinds of guys?? p.s. i can relate :D but i complained about it once or twice... my sisters (both of them) have them including my mother! and it was unfair.. but since i'm the slim one.. i tend to focus more on other perks like not having to worry about it during athletic activities (i like playing golf and most recently, tennis)...
November 25, 2006 at 4:26 pmi'm flat chested too and although at times i'm saddened by it because other people joke about it, i just think of the brighter side and focus on my other *ssets. i don't need big boobs to be sexy because i know I AM sexy... besides, uso ang padded na bra!haha keep that head up girls!!
November 25, 2006 at 11:08 pmI'm naturally a 36D but I'm already 30 and I had not had one serious relationship. So big breasts are not everything...even if I feel good about my chest size. I guess that's what really counts. I think that the idea that my future guy will be pleased about my size is just an added bonus.
November 27, 2006 at 7:42 ami used to be bothered with being flat-chested but i got tired of it eventually. i'm not even a full 32A, but i always get compliments about my style and how well i carry myself that i don't see the point of beating myself up for not being better endowed in the chest department. it's just a matter of knowing what works for you and what doesn't.
November 27, 2006 at 2:40 pmbefore i thought i was abnormal for not having normal sized breasts like any other girl i knew including my mom
November 30, 2006 at 4:21 pmit seemed my whole message was not posted fully, it was really quite long.. anyway, ps for erin: the author did not say anything to criticize full breasted women, she is just sort of making us flat chested women feel normal, accepted
November 30, 2006 at 4:41 pmthank u
December 1, 2006 at 7:51 amI'm a new mom with a 3-month old baby thriving on my milk. So what if you have a small breast? your mamary gland isn't there for aesthetic purpose, you know. It's worth is more than that.
December 1, 2006 at 3:26 pmi'm a flatchested girl, where as all my friends have very full breasts, as does my mother. i've never really come to accept it and don't think i ever will. i really do hate it.
December 3, 2006 at 8:49 amwell..Im not alone in this world...at this time im worried about the condition of my breast because I thought this is not normal..but after reading this article...Ive gain confidence ...
December 4, 2006 at 3:48 amkala ko ako lang ang nakatulog nang nagsabog ang Diyos ng boobs sa mga babae, marami pala tayo. hehe :) anyway, ako din, tampulan ng tukso ng mga blockmates, ng mga housemates, at kung sino pang mga walang magawa sa buhay. basta istorya tungkol sa flat-chested, ako ang tinuturo ng mga walangyang orgmates ko hehe:) di lang un, lagi ko naiisip yung sinabi nung highschool cl*ssmate ko na hindi masisiyahan ang mapapangasawa ko dahil flatchested nga ako. so aun, bothered na bothered ako sa pagiging ganito ko. naging insecurity ko na rin pagdating sa sex. pero kahit ganun, ndi ko na rin naiisip masyado, kasi eventually, nung nag-engage na rin ako sa sex, i asked my bf kung factor pa yung breast para sa kanya, hindi daw, kaya ayun, naging confident na rin ako sa sarili ko kahit pano. i also had sexual experiences with other men pero that didn't bother them kahit na parang pareho kaming lalaki sa upper body, hehe :) i just try to make fun about it, and not take it much seriously. if they dont accept the fact na flat chested ako, bahala sila. ganun lang. ngayon, ok na rin sakin kahit 30a din ako, as long as kaya kong dalhin ang mga sinusuot ko at ok din naman pagdating sa sex, e di masaya. so para sa mga kapwa ko, just dont put enough pressure on yourselves. kung di mo na talaga kaya, uminom ka ng 'diane' yun yung iniinom ng mga bading para magkaron ng boobs. hehe :0 di ko pa na-try pero baka sa isang araw bumili ako. hehe :) gandang araw! sabi ng ng boyfriend ko, 'maganda ka, di mo kelangan ng malaking boobs' balance of nature lang, hehe, meron kasing iba na hipon, katawan lang wag na ulo. hehe
December 4, 2006 at 7:43 ami'm glad to realize that i am not abnormal as i thought before, that i could live a normal healthy happy life kahit 30aa lang ako, gumawa na lang kaya tayo ng group? fun fearless cute breasted females? hehe..
December 5, 2006 at 4:37 ambefore kasi, i was very insecure, my mom, my sis
December 5, 2006 at 4:54 ambefore kasi, i was very insecure, my mom
December 5, 2006 at 4:57 amu can check out www.007b.com/flat-chested.php it totaly opened my eyes, hope it's to okey to post a website here... :-)
December 5, 2006 at 6:51 ami enjoyed reading your article. you see, im also as flat. well, almost i guess. im a 32A. friends used to made fun of me saying she's size A-flat (like a note) but i already got used to it. and you're right, atleast i can wear two piece without looking like i have eight kids already. haha!
December 6, 2006 at 7:07 amsometimes most of us girls really initimidated by those women who do have bigger breast but actually why feel insecure? all of us created by God with different blessings... it so happen that God gave us what He think we need. It has a reason. actually, not all guys love girls who do have bigger breast,sobrang takaw attention lang sya sa mga guys because that is the first thing guys could see, however when it comes to bed... talo-talo na!?! right? many of those people whom i know that they have a bigger breasts however they wasn't able to use that... what i mean is that, they got pregnant
December 6, 2006 at 6:11 pmto the writer of this article if ever you do find the brand of lingerie that has br*ssieres for flat chested women like us, please feature it in your future articles. if im not mistaken you mentioned in your article that theres a brand that carry br*ssieres in small cups and sizes.
December 10, 2006 at 4:20 pmgreat article. when i was younger i used to have the same insecurities.. imagine, all my friends (male and female) loved making fun of my flat-chestedness!! but i guess it all boils down to accepting what was given to you. if you think of it as something beautiful, then the world will see the same image you project. Confidence lang katapat, ladies!
December 11, 2006 at 3:04 pmHow odd... As a male, I personally prefer *flat* chests. I know; it's bizarre. Works against biological instincts an' all that. Wait, biological instincts? Why are we supposed to be so attracted to big breasts anyway? *I'm* personally repulsed by excessively large breasts! I mean, when you look at other cultures - especially, say, the primitive cultures in Africa - breasts are nothing to look at. They just *are*. Like your lips or your nose or your eyes - they're just a *part* of you, like any other part of your body. It's just the way advertising works in the U.S. - creating an image that tells people, 'breasts are bad for children!' 'Breasts are sexual!' Blah-de-blah-blah-blah. *Sigh* It's even worse for those of us who *do* like smaller chests, because people left and right, in their vanity, are getting breast implants or are growing larger breasts due to excessive hormone intake (stupid cow milk!). But at least take comfort in the fact that, yeah, there are some guys who do, in fact, prefer the smaller variety. As for what I'm doing on this site... I can't answer that. Sorry. :p
December 12, 2006 at 12:06 ami'm so glad to hear that zyrus! yeah, there are still guys like you, my guy loves me, small breasts
December 12, 2006 at 5:53 amcont: small breasts
December 12, 2006 at 5:56 amcont: and all! how i wish there are more guys like you! :-)
December 12, 2006 at 6:00 amhello becky b how are you my e-mail add mkmrrd@yahoo.com please send me mail
December 16, 2006 at 8:41 amlooking for latest fasion dress.
December 18, 2006 at 12:23 amI feel am blessed enough to be endowed with a 34- inch bustline. I love my boob size and I do get envied for having such!! Having ample boobs make me feel confident, sewxy. more womanly. I feel I am 100% all woman because of my "twin peaks"!
December 19, 2006 at 7:14 amhey gurls, having small breasts doesn't mean you dont have the right to feel comfy and free. my guy tells me everytime that he's thankful that i have not so big boobs bcoz other guys only glance a@my face
December 22, 2006 at 7:34 pmI am not flat chested bt m not proud of it. Like many things it has advantages and disadvantages. I always tel my fren's not o envy me. Coz of ds boobs, sometimes its hard for me to choose the right clothes where my boobs wouldn't be obvious.
December 23, 2006 at 5:24 amthat's nice cutie _eds. each of us have our own distinct beauty
December 25, 2006 at 7:03 amhey add nyo naman me sa friendster nyo dehezu@yahoo
December 30, 2006 at 4:15 pmboobs arent everything gurls. it's the brain. no matter how big one's breasts are, balewala rin f one doesnt hv the brains..
December 30, 2006 at 7:07 pmhaayyy... di niyo lang alm f kung gano kahirap f u have a big boobs, its so hard to freely move or run as fast as you can or even sleep especially wearing clothes, one time nagshopping ako, i really like the dress and its design, surely it fits into my hips and waist but unfortunately not in my bust, oohhh... i hate it... be lucky if u r flat chested at least nothing to worry about...
January 12, 2007 at 5:12 ami do admit that i dont feel comfy being this super flats but let's get used to it. anyhow it has it's own advantages. this is how God what's us to be, so be it!
January 14, 2007 at 6:01 amhi..
January 23, 2007 at 10:01 amwhat can i say.. i like the article..im too a flat chested ...but im confident enough since my boyfriend says that its okey.. and i stil looked sExy... well u see.. when i was just a high scol. i could feel that im lesbian.. but times p*ssed.. my exs says that im Sexy.. hahaha.. my busts only 32A.. and im proud...hindi h*ssle/... i can ran,dance,swim.. anything.,,, hindi naman masakit..
January 24, 2007 at 1:38 pmit's ok.. after all, it's the face that guys first look at.. ;)
January 28, 2007 at 7:56 amit isn't just boobs that make you sexy. I get dates constantly and guys always tell me I'm sexy, and I'm completely flat! There is just about nothing there at ALL. I used to expect guys to laugh, but they never do. If a guy wants big boobs, he isn't going to ask me out. Wearing round necked shirts, halter tops, and drawing attention to other parts of your body (like your hair and face with earrings) helps too. One body part alone doesn't make you hot or not!
January 31, 2007 at 10:07 amI love flast chested gals.The flatterthe better. I find you all very sexy !!
February 3, 2007 at 3:19 ameh ano nman kng mliit? nsa dating un.. pro m not flat chested eh.. proud 2b 36a! add me s frndster redhorsebeer_01@yahoo.com
February 6, 2007 at 12:11 pmafter all the reseach i finally found you guys..ever since i was like 14, i had this insecurities and its getting worser this days..i planned of having breast surgery a couple of years from now so i could achieve what i want.. thanks for wakening me from my insecurities.. after all im not bad looking and my brain is definitely intact.. long live to us!!!
February 8, 2007 at 8:42 amERIN IS AN IDIOT! i loved 2 read this article it made me feel far better to kno other people feel like me. lets me happy with how we are no matter what pathetic insecure ppl say to make themselves feel better!
February 9, 2007 at 10:54 pmi super duper can relate to this.. like there's this one time, when my frnds went to a bar..and i was really enjoying shaking my booty wen 3 guys approched us. d hottie filam guy is wat i ended dancing with.. he was like uncomfortable with me, while me?? i was infront of him , hoping that his into me already..everythn was smooth wen d filam hottie blurted dis question "ARE YOU A GAY?" I couldnt say a thing and instantly i felt like fainting. i just nod my head, smile and den continue dancing..but of course i moved away from him. until now, its as if, im not in myself. :(
February 17, 2007 at 12:56 pmAnyway I agree to those topic coz b4 I am flat chested that is why some other people asking me some question if I am a “Guy”.! You know its hurts a lot of me coz that was so very disgusting although I am very thin b4... But now I’m fat I have a big chest then now they are not calling me a flat chested that was so great coz now I’m totally a pig.hehehehe That was a joke.. :-p
February 22, 2007 at 2:33 pmwhy would you want big boobs for? i mean there's gotta be a man for you, and i'm pretty sure it's not your boobs he will be most likely be into. it's the YOU. i've been flat-chested since forever. i don't even feel great about wearing padded bras though still it can help. but it's not the only factor to consider when a girl is said to be sexy.
March 1, 2007 at 7:01 amPrecisely! besides having a big boobs is to heavy to carry, i think. mahihirapan ata akong tumakbo nun hahahaha!!
March 3, 2007 at 5:46 amhey ladies, i'm so happy to meet you. i look in the mirror everyday at my emery board chest, and wonder 'what if' some days i get depressed, stilll at that age of 37. somedays i said' who knows' i could have had great tits, 3 or 4 babydaddies and some bad *ss kids. so it's a catch 22. but i'd like to know 'what it' what's it like to actually have the. i'm tired of that being the firstand foremost on my mind every single day. holla back.
March 3, 2007 at 7:28 amyah me too
March 11, 2007 at 10:45 amLadies w/ flat chest is not an issue. I believe flat chested ladies has a very beautiful back... not butt. but back.
March 13, 2007 at 7:26 amhonestly,i have big boobs...at first,im proud because i think that's one of my *sset,but as time goes by,as people starting to stare at my chest instead to my face..i wish to have smaller boobs than what i have right now.people are starting to stare at my boobs instead to my face...and "nakakabastos tlga" so...i started to buy big shirts instead of blouses just to cover slightly my chest...so, just be contented of having small size of boobs so that people will respect you... =)
March 14, 2007 at 1:38 pmi am flat chested too..i always am and 4ever will be!...i hate being this way..but then again, what else can i do ??i just deal with it everyday and pretend i look okay when im really not...but after knowing im not alone, i t made me feel confident and make me think of other things i have... :)
March 16, 2007 at 2:48 pmim flat chested. i love it. it makes me different and special bc it seems like every girl nowadays have big fake tits. i love my face i love my body i love my small boobs.... boobs are not there for dudes to look at they are there to feed our children... i think its sooo funny women are so insecure about this..but i understand the insecurities... bc when im having sex i dont even like taking my top off bc i dont feel like a guy would like to see my lack of breast tissue hahah... im learning to love my body though! aim-aerozeppgurl myspace-myspace.com/aerozeppisthesex
March 17, 2007 at 6:40 pminteresting...=). i get all the insecurities for being flatchested. my brothers teased me that i am 'one of them' though i am definitely the girlie2 type. agree, that the a woman's worth is not at all in the size of our breasts...life is far more than the physical. God bless to the well-endowed and bless the flatties even more =p
March 18, 2007 at 9:10 amLong live the flat chested girls!
March 21, 2007 at 8:57 pmjust be yourself girl! u dont have to be insecured about your size besides you can wear everything u want and that you have to be proud of what GoD has given to you, maybe there's a better *sset in your body other than your breast...
March 24, 2007 at 9:00 amUntil recently i felt like i was the only flat chested person out there i mean i know of people with small breasts but unlike them, mine don't hold the natural shape unless they are erect. Growing up i watched all my friends develop and the older i got the more my insecurities grew. It's not that i ever had problems with the people i got in relationships with; that wasn't the cause of my insecurities. I guess until my 18th birthday i held out for hope that they may develop, since i had started puberty quite late. Upon recently, searched small breasts did i discover, that i wasn't alone, and some women, are technically flat chested. I'm still getting used to the idea. But i guess I've been pretty lucky, I'm in a loving relationship, and every time i feel insecure he reminds me how beautiful i am to him. Anyway sites like this really help a lot. I know now I'm not alone. I recently stumbled across another site though, and it's the main reason for all our insecurities, because most of the world seems to view things like this. http://uncyclopedia.org/wiki/Flat-chested
March 24, 2007 at 3:22 pmDon't be sad if you are flat-chested.. God doesn't give everything to a person nman nuh.. we are born to be unique.. I am flat-chested but people says i'm still sexy, show ur other *ssets like ur eyes, lips.. etc.. faye was right as long as our brain is bigger than our boobs we can still dominate.. Its not the basis of one's personality.. its the attitude.
March 24, 2007 at 5:21 pmdont fret my friends,we still have our *ssets.boobs are just a part of our body,we still have so many other big part that we can be proud of..God gave us this blessing so we can just work on it.not change it..for more info,read cosmopolitan phils.they will sure help you as they help me.thanks cosmo!!!
March 25, 2007 at 10:27 amwhat if u dont have a 36-d.. eh ano ngaun.. bsta we girlz have da beauty datz within datz the impt thing.. and i still think i'm sexy..i think ol of us girlz have the confidence to be a ramp model..being a girl rockz..
March 25, 2007 at 11:13 amoh my..i like this issue...i am a 32A cup but mind u, it never had been an insecurity for me..its a way of flaunting myself..i even went out without wearing one...hahahahha...its nice not to feel something dropping...geehhh...yup..got 4 kids now...but still dont bother about having big as you call like balloons...hehehehe...i was still able to find a second husband...a foreigner..and we never discussed about boobs...he loves me for what i am and that matters most...right girls...so go for it....flaunt and be merry...
March 27, 2007 at 3:01 pmSmaller breasts are upper cl*ss, sophisticated, you can actually wear NORMAL dresses! And run!
April 8, 2007 at 7:15 pmI cannot blame those who wants to have a pair of full breast. I admit i am "gifted" in that aspect of human anatomy, although i do not see either size as a bad thing but both have their pros and cons. For an athletic woman like me, i wish i have a size fitted for an active lifestyle, im not used to being complemented about it, it makes me feel uncomfortable, so I tend to cover up with losse shirt, just to avoid unnecessary attention.
April 10, 2007 at 8:22 amas long as you can carry yourself properly, walang prob. nasa nagdadala yan mga sis!!
April 14, 2007 at 12:17 pm*clap*clap* i love being flat, although sometimes i do wish to be blessed with a little bit more. but it's all good, i can wear whatever i want, low necklines don't really say vulgar, plus it helps me keep pounds off. my boyf says he prefers small boobs, so i'm fine the way i am. i hope everybody feels the same contentment.
April 15, 2007 at 4:35 amgirls all you need is confidence... you doesn't need to have a gorgeous body to live and conquer the world!
April 15, 2007 at 6:22 amBe aware thay here are some attractive men that see it as an attribute that the womans breasts are small. I have had "dreams", and still have as my greatest wish to be with a "flat" woman. May be it will happen :)))
April 19, 2007 at 12:22 ampls. update me more about this website!!! thanks a lot....ill be waiting!!!
April 19, 2007 at 10:32 amGlad to know there are loads of us out there. Anyway, just think of all those hollywood celebs with small breasts (i.e. Kate Hudson, Keira Knightley..etc.).. they still look sexy. I guess its just a matter of acceptance and..well, as the article said..just have to work on what we already have.
April 22, 2007 at 4:08 pmLove your body for what it is and what it isn't. That's the essence of the article. I am a 36-B which blew up somewhere between 38-B or 38-C when I gained weight. I am happy with the change, as my man is.. truly it makes one feel sexier. But no matter the size, we are all sexy in our own way, BIG or SMALL!!
April 30, 2007 at 7:49 pmI don't have big breasts but I feel good about myself and I believe that's what really counts. Oh, and I have a guy who adores me and thinks i'm HOT despite my small size. ;) Being sexy is a mindset girls.
May 9, 2007 at 10:29 pmyeah, it doesn't matter whether you have big or not so big breast. as long as you can carry yourself well and you know and you BELIEVE that you are beautiful, it's all that it takes and ur ready to go g*g* girl! attitude is more sexy than those two big mountains dear...
May 16, 2007 at 9:50 amI don't have big breasts too, but the only thing that bothers me is that my friends tease me about these and I don' t think it's nice. Maybe I'm like this because I'm skinny and tall. But I believe in myself and I'm just being confident when people tell me that I'm tall and beautiful and I can be a model and I think I have those curves which they call "sexy"...that's why I still can say that even though I don't have big breasts I can be beautiful and feel sexy...(I just need to have confidence though...)
May 21, 2007 at 2:43 pmmy chest circumference is 30cm and my waist cirmumference is 27cm. thats 3 cm for my boobs. try to beat that!
May 25, 2007 at 2:26 pmi am constantly told that being flat chested is not a big deal, and that i will find guys who like me for me and not for the size of my chest, but that still doesn't make me feel better about my size! being flat chested makes me feel less womanly and feminine and i absolutely hate that more than anything, because i AM a woman. i would be okay with having a small chest if other people did not make such a big deal out of it! everyone is always making comments to me and i'm sick of it.
June 1, 2007 at 3:05 amay salamat akala ko nag iisa ako.
June 3, 2007 at 7:11 amcheck my site.. we sell the fastest whitening glutathione (Liteskin) and We have helped a lot of men and women who once lost their confidence for having extra pounds and was thinking there was no way for them to shed those fats off that no matter how many hours they exercise in a day and avoiding fatty foods, they never slimmed down until they found Liteslim.. give this a try!
June 12, 2007 at 9:21 amcutie :D
June 13, 2007 at 5:48 pmladies with small ones look more sophisticated than those with enormous ones, having a flat chest makes me look good in any dress i wear
June 15, 2007 at 6:14 pmbuti nga kayo maliit lang eh ako hirap na hirap noh..
June 21, 2007 at 5:28 pmI have good days and bad days good days I dont care what people think about my breasts bad days I feel down and unwomanly. One thing I do know is my small breasts have had a good use out of them as I have two children. Often men worry about the size o their p*n*s so it doesnt matter either way.
June 26, 2007 at 4:38 amI am as flat as an airport runway and lovin' every minute of it. Flat chests rule. If my man doesn't like it, he can take a hike!
December 24, 2007 at 3:33 pmI am as flat as an airport runway and lovin' every minute of it. Flat chests rule. If my man doesn't like it, he can take a hike!
December 24, 2007 at 3:35 pmmine was flat too..haha!i get embar*ssed one time when we had a beach hop with my caz bcoz of my flat chest!!;P
January 6, 2008 at 4:37 pmi just read the comments here and i must disagree with what Erin said. The author is NOT trying or does not mean to put down women who are well endowed. what she meant by the article is women who are not well endowed should feel comfortable with what they have. Or atleast "love what you have..."
February 11, 2008 at 8:21 pm