
In an exclusive interview for
YES! Magazine’s March 2011 issue,
Sarah Geronimo finally breaks her silence about the “love triangle” she was involved in with
Rayver Cruz and
Cristine Reyes. In the article,
PEP.ph reports that Sarah reveals the real score between her and Rayver and how their failed relationship broke her heart.
Rayver himself admits to
YES! that he and Sarah were together for a year, but
they kept their relationship hidden because, at the time, Sarah was not yet allowed to have a boyfriend. During their secret relationship, they were only able to be
alone together twice—once for thirty seconds and the next time for thirty minutes. Instead of meeting up, they exchanged text messages and communicated over Skype.
“
Aaminin ko, sinasabi ko talaga sa kanya na kaya kong maghintay. Pero alam naman nating lahat na may mga bagay na madaling sabihin pero mahirap talaga (I admit I told her I was ready to wait. But we all know some things are easier said than done),"
he is quoted as saying on PEP.ph. "
Yon po 'yong pagkakamali ko, na nangako ako. (That was my mistake, that I made a promise.)”
Spot.PH further quotes him: “
Kailangan mamili ako na sa'n ba ako mas magiging masaya—sa babaeng alam kong... mas makakasama ko na masaya talaga ako? O do'n sa babaeng nagpapahintay sa akin ng limang taon, na kapag inantay ko ng limang taon, may kasiguruhan ba talaga ako na 'pag limang taon na, puwede na ba talaga? (I had to choose which person would make me happier—with a girl I could spend more time with, one who really made me happy? Or a girl who wanted me to wait five years, when, if I did so, there was no guarantee that we would really be together?)”
For her part, Sarah understood how hard it was for Rayver. “
Sabi ko po sa kanya noon, 'Alam ko na darating 'yong panahon na may babae talaga na libre, na puwede mong makasama.' Sabi ko, 'Okey lang 'yon sa akin, basta maging honest ka lang sa akin... 'Yon po 'yong naging kasunduan namin—pero talaga pong ano, para akong ano, winasak talaga. (I told him, ‘I know a time will come when you’ll see a girl you can be with freely.’ I said, ‘That’s fine with me, as long as you’re honest with me.’ That was our agreement—but what happened was I really felt devastated.) ”
“
Kasi po sobrang pinagkatiwalaan mo 'yong tao, na sobra ko rin po kasi siyang 'pinaglaban kina Mommy (Because I really trusted him, and I even fought my mom for him),” she added. “
Na-realize
ko na sa bandang huli, wala lang sa kanya... Hindi naman yata ako minahal ng taong ito, parang tinapon niya lang po ako. (In the end, I realized it meant nothing to him. It looks like he might not have loved me, after all. It was like he threw me away.)”
“
Ang lalaki, kung okay
siya, willing
siyang maghintay. Hindi niya sisirain ang buhay ng anak ko, hindi niya sisirain ang pangarap ng anak ko. Siya pa mismo magsasabi, 'Sige, maghihintay ako.' (If someone's a good man, he would be willing to wait. He won't destroy my daughter's life, her dreams. He said it himself, 'Yes, I'll wait for you.'),” Mommy Divine, Sarah’s mom, told
YES! when asked about the issue. She further reveals this is part of why she thinks Sarah isn’t ready to entertain suitors yet. “
Sa nakikita ko sa kanya, hindi siya talaga puwedeng pabayaang mag-isa. 'Yon ang nakikita ko kung bakit palagi ko siyang ginagabayan sa ngayon. (Based on what I see, I really can’t leave her alone, which is why I always give her guidance.)”
YES! further attempts to clarify the issue by interviewing all the parties involved, including Sarah’s personal assistant,
Anna Dasig; her friends
Sharon Cuneta, Judy Ann Santos, and Beth Tamayo; her former love team partner
John Lloyd Cruz; and
Cristine Reyes.
To read the rest of this 39-page special, grab a copy of YES! Magazine’
s March 2011 issue, out on stands now. Also in this issue:Len Lopez: The President's New Girl
Willie, Princess, & Shalani
Kristine and Oyo Celebrity Wedding
(Photo by Paolo Pineda, courtesy of Preview Magazine
)
I have nothing against Sarah G. And not a fan of Rayver as well.. Pero 5 years? Sobra naman! Ginto naman masyado tingin niya sa sarili niya. I mean, Sarah G is 23 y/o na yata? not sure... Bakit naman sobrang higpit ng parents ng batang ito. Parang minsan, naiisip ko, hindi na yung "anak" nila ang pino protektahan nila kundi yung "pera"...just my two cents! peace
kawawa naman si sarah, masyadong deprived, baka isang araw magpabuntis na lang siya dahil sobrang pigil.. lol
yup 5 yrs is sobrang tagal, pero sana di na sya nangako...
I know masakit kay Sarah. Pero common! Sana ipinaglaban talaga niya ( sabi sa article pinaglaban niya si Rayver) How?
Eh ano naman kung masugatan ka at magkamali sa mundo? Sayang din ang limang taon, marami na sanang natutunan si Sarah sa buhay.
A genius doesn't let anyone get in the way of her dreams.
Magiging totally fulfilled lang si Sarah once nakalaya na sya sa parents nya.
Their ways of communicating is so "manang". its like "sinauna pa". I pity Sarah.. Its okay to love as long as you know ur limits. Luv u Sarah!
Hindi puwedeng pabayaang mag-isa? It's good that her mom wants to give her guidance but Sarah also needs to learn how to be independent and make her own decisions and learn from them- she's 22 years old, for goodness's sake! Hindi na siya bata at may sarili nang isip.
How did she know na hindi puede pabayaan mag-isa si Sarah e she hasn't even tried na magdecide for herself si Sarah! Ginagawa nyang batang paslit si Sarah, to think na at her age I think she's quite matured to decide some things for herself. Saka over ang 5 years! Bakit, mag-aasawa na ba agad si Sarah pag nagka-bf? Mashadong old-fahioned ang way of thinking ng mother ni Sarah, nakakasakal! And besides, let's be honest, hindi pa naman talaga sure na si Rayver ang makakatuluyan nya diba, only time can tell. So why have him wait 5 years? May point din si Rayver, ang mali nya lang nga is nag-two time. Si Sarah naman, sana man lang i-try nya kontrahin ang mother nya paminsan-minsan. It's not wrong na kontrahin ang magulang kung sa palagay ng anak ay nasa tama sya.
go sarah.....
hay naku, super OA....
tsaka it was rayver to blame, nilinaw nmn pala sakanya ni sarah na sabihin lng kung meron ng iba. yung babaeng libre at palagi niya makakasama.
ang ngyari, hindi ganun. tinago ni rayver ang relationship with cristine.
yun yung sobrang masakit sa part ni sasa, nagtiwala siya, sumugal siya kahit alam niyang bawal at magagalit ang magulang niya.
handa siya umintindi.
pero siya ba naintindihan?? siya ang nging masama. nanay niya pa ngayon ang mukhang pera.
naduwag si rayver magsalita.
at nagtapangtapangan lng magsalita kung kailan na sure niya na kung sino talaga ang handang mag bigay ng oras sakanya..
he's the most st*p*d guy ever!!!!
nakakairita ang pagiging duwag niya..
at di lng ang pagpangako ang pagkakamali niya, nagkamali siya ng naglihim siya at sinaktan niya si SASA..
hindi naman po sa nakikialam ako sa pagiging parents nyu kay sarah.. pero let sarah feel her freedom. if that what she wants. just guide her. alam na naman siguro ni sarah ang TAMA at MALI. :)